Dealing with B.S.
What are the possible ways to deal with the judgmental bullshit of the society? [Such as this.]
1. Hide your inner private life from your public life as much as possible. Be the sinner in thought while acting like the saint.
The Gain: No judgmental bullshit
The Cost: Your hypocrisy and your passive support to the society's bullshit in maintaining the status quo, so that others like you have to face the same bullshit.
2. Live your life, without going out of the way to keep it hidden. Distance yourself from the bullshit and/or stop caring about it.
The Gain: Your are living your life, and not the shallow life you are expected to conform to.
The Cost: You'd need to be financially and psychologically independent of the judgmental elements of society, and for that you'd need a social circle and friends like yourself, and a great degree of mental resilience.
My Advised Solution: Begin with the first strategy to protect yourself, but with the aim of achieving the goals of second strategy. Keep working on your financial and psychological independence, and gradually shift to living your life.
Do you know of another way? Please share.