Saturday 4 December 2010
This is from the comments on the Rape and Victim-Blaming Mentality post:
"Anyone who has been exposed to both sides of debate can see that the issue of hijab is too multifaceted to be swept away by a single generalization, either in its favor or its opposition. We cannot say that veil is all good, because we know that veil is an instrument of oppression of women, and many women are suffering because of that. Nor can we say that veil is all evil, because we know that veil is a conscious and free choice of women in many instances.
The problem is not the veil itself. The fundamental problem is, as Butters very rightly pointed out, that men are judging women's 'respectability' in the first place. It is this mentality that I wish to criticize and attack, and which we must all protest against, whether we are religious or secular. A society in which women are not judged by their clothing, in which women are free to wear what they want without a moral tag attached to it, whether it is a bikini or a burqa. It is such a society that we must aim for."
[Edit: I am not talking about judgement based on clothing in general. I am talking about a specific sort of judgment; a judgment of sexual respectability status; the sort of judgement by men that classifies women into "respectable" and "unrespectable". As far as I can observe, there is no existing corresponding judgement of this sort for men by women. Its existence is only justified by a patriarchal society. I am attacking this particular judgement. European societies have approximated this ideal more than Muslim societies.]